WOW I first have to credit the Urban Planet forumers for being able to have this discussion without drawing blood. Unlike some OTHER forums I am formerly associated with.
I am originally from Little Rock Arkansas, which for all intensive purposes is like the "kid brother" of Dallas. The sharing of I-30 forms a pipeline of culture, ideas, and wants between Arkansans and North Texans. Because of this, I grew up inundated by Dallas culture... Six Flags, Cowboys, the awesome Texas economy... oh yeah, and there was that one little television show. I can confidently say that I wasn't even aware of Houston's existence until I was in high school.... I saw this big blob on a road map, and it wasn't San Antonio, Austin, or the Metroplex.
The D/FW embodies so much of what is Texan, and what is truly American... the heartland, the smell of success, glitz and glamour, and a wonderful, independent spirit. These are the aspects I love about Dallas and all of Texas. I spent one great summer living in Arlington, and I got to experience the Big D in every way possible.
But as a matter of preference, I'm a Houstonian. This city shares that successful attitude with Dallas, and a similar successful economy, but it's the edgier, grittier side that appeals to me here. It's mind boggling that a town can be so close knit while having such ridiculous amounts of diversity. The social schedule within a year will leave you going crazy... THE Rodeo, Art Car Parade, Houston Pride, The Houston International Festival, Galveston Mardi Gras, Dickens on the Strand, and yeah so so so much more. I mean what do you say to a city that is red-blooded country western town, home for world-class opera and ballet companies AND a true mecca for Southern Hip-Hop. It boggles my mind that we seem to keep all of this cool stuff as a secret from the rest of the country. If you're not aware, come down for three days... spend one in the inner city area (Montrose, downtown, Galleria), one in the southeast (Clear Lake, Galveston), and one in the Southwest (chinatown, Sugar Land).
At the end of the day, Texas is a very fortunate state to have such pehnomenal urban areas.... Houston, San Antonio, Dallas, Fort Worth, Austin and El Paso have all defined themselves differently. But together, they make a very powerful force within the state, and our country.
There's my one-sided and biased opinion