MrSmith, on Oct 3 2005, 11:41 AM, said:
I live in a downtown brownstone and all the time I hear from people that they wouldn't like it because i am too close to my neighbors or that they would miss their yard. The reality is that because I don't have my own yard I see my neighbors less than when i lived in a house. And, instead of a yard I have a park just a block away --and i don't have to mow it

I live in the same scenario in Providence, in an urban townhouse in two buildings with a central courtyard, each with about 7 rowhouses. I now have 13 neighbors and I know them all far, far better then my family ever knew anyone in the suburban neighborhood where I grew up.
And the lawns... Besides mowing them (which most people here don't do, they hire someone to do it), what do most people do with them? I mean, really? I see suburban tracts here with these enormous lawns... I think it's got to be a status thing, feeling like the "landed" gentry. Sure, it's nice for kids to play in, and I have nice memories of playing in my lawn growing up, but families in Providence do those same activities in parks.
MrSmith, on Oct 3 2005, 11:41 AM, said:
I don't think it is the corporate world that is shapping people to want houses. I think our history is so closely tied with the land and owning land. Heck, this country originally tied the right to vote to owning land. The government encouraged people to go farther West and gave away land. It has been the American dream for two-centuries. People have just never really gotten away from this way of thinking.
I don't think it's the corporate world (at least not exclusively). It's multifactorial, a combo of corporate influence, government policy, economics, and racial/social influences. These have all combined to create a nearly 60 year social "assumption" since WWII that moving farther out and into a more suburban existence means "moving up" in the world.
Also, economics play a role. For 60 years, because of cheap land and cheap gas, the farther out you move into new developments, the more you usually get for your money. Bigger house, more land, more garage spaces, bigger lawns. Americans love any value that gives them more stuff for less money. The supersizing of housing.
That's certainly why my parents during the 60's moved from urban NY "way out" 60 miles north into the "country" (now a suburb). They could never remotely have afforded, fresh out of college with what they were making at the time, to build a home on Long Island or in Lower Westchester, but they could farther North in Putnam. Today, that house, now considered to be in the "core" suburb ring, is worth well over half a million dollars. Despite my having a very good income in a far, far higher socioeconomic group equivalent than my parents were in at the same age, I could never afford my childhood home right now that they built at an age younger than I am now.
The same is true in Rochester. A 1915 bungalow with 2 beds and 1 bath with 1 garage downtown is virtually the same cost as a bland sprawl development 20 minutes outside of town with 4 bedrooms, 3 car garage, and a large lawn (and no upkeep costs on the old house).
I hate, hate, hate sprawl, but until policy, gas costs, land costs, etc make the argument to move farther out more expensive than staying closer by (which only gas costs or anti-sprawl policy have the potential to do), until people stop wanting a bargain, or until people start finding spawl living stupifyingly boring, we're all stuck... It sucks...
- Garris
Providence, RI